Not Working

Limited to my limited observation, I once concluded how guys could be more tolerant than girls (which is amazing). My conversation with J showed exactly that. Yet, I am not as convinced as before, in fact now I interpret tolerance with 'ignorance' --guess it's a more appropriate one. 

Maybe they don't sweat small stuffs because they just don't care.

Well, what I hate most is how guys are unable to show affection in the simplest way possible: presence. Even nowadays, presence can be shown in multiple ways, including a quick note of 'I miss you' and 'I am doing fine' or 'I am now leaving' or whatever it is. 

What is a relationship without communication? Come on, don't give me that 'trust' excuse anymore. It just doesn't work.